If you are dating someone, there is a method to make sure it is real. Are you ready for it? The secret is to take your time. If it’s real, there should be no rush. Sometimes, however, we get so caught up that we forget this simple fact. When it comes to love, it’s best to slow down and take your time. This accomplishes two things: first, it will protect your heart, and second, it will make it work for your affections. Men love the thrill of the chase, and when you fall in love quickly, you take that out of the equation. Always remember that men love the chase. Another benefit is that this approach seems to make guys fall for the girl much faster.
What makes him fall faster is that at first he doesn’t care that you want to marry him. Also, when we are in a rush to fall in love, we miss out on many of those wonderful moments that make falling in love so intoxicating. For example, that moment when your breath is taken away, or your pulse races because he touched your hand. And what about those late-night conversations you never want to end?
When we are in a rush to be in love, we miss out on truly falling in love. Somehow we have gotten used to the idea that falling in love quickly is the best, but it is not always like that. Maybe it’s all the movies we see, but it’s just not realistic to fall in love at “movie time.”
Ladies, a man usually falls for a woman he has to pursue, a woman who is confident enough to take her time. The mystique of your patience will attract him to you. Not rushing the falling in love process also protects him because when he’s in a hurry, it’s easy to make assumptions about his partner that may or may not be true. Human beings are so complex and flawed that it makes sense that it would take a long time to truly know someone.
The fact is, you can be a bride and not be ready to pick out china patterns and talk about babies. Why not try to be two people who enjoy each other’s company exclusively for a while? Your partner will try harder to earn your love and of course you are worth it.
