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When your guy loses interest or breaks up with you, it can be a time when you feel miserable and alone. He can replay the situation in his mind and wonder what he could have done differently. Maybe you know he acted needy or demanding, or maybe you have no idea what went wrong. You may still be chasing him or desperately waiting for him to contact you. If you’re going to get the guy back, you need to take a step back first. Acting on impulse will not help you now. Read on to find out how to win back the guy who lost interest in you or dumped you.
To win a guy back, you must first sort out your emotions and go back to being the positive woman you were when you first met. When you’re feeling unhappy and miserable after a breakup, you’re not in the best position to win your guy back. You probably don’t feel sociable and you may want to hide from the world and lick your wounds. However, this will not get it back. If you let him know that you are not happy, he will feel guilty. He will want to escape guilt from him instead of spending time in your company.
Even though it’s a hard time for you, to get it back, you have no choice but to make it look like you feel good about yourself and move on and move on with your life. If you can show him that you’re over him, he may start to think that he made a mistake in letting you go. Usually when you act needy and demanding in the relationship, he feels like he needs to have some space. So when you show him that you don’t need him and that you’re having a great time, then he can reverse his decision.
Either way, take some time away from him to give him a break. It is very important that you give him the opportunity to miss you. He’ll probably be thinking of you even if you have no way of knowing. If things have been going bad for a while, he needs time to get over the negative image he has built of you. To compensate, from now on you can only allow yourself positive communication.
As difficult as it may be, focus on getting your social life back and filling it with fun and good company. It will be to your advantage when word gets out that you are having a great time. If you can do this quickly, you have a better chance of getting it back.
At some point you will have to get back in touch with him, but only when you feel able to maintain a positive attitude. Hopefully, you’ll be able to engineer a chance meeting where you can show him that he’s over him and that he’s enjoying life. In these situations, be brief and friendly. Greet him enthusiastically and sport a genuine smile. This is your chance to re-engage him on a positive level, but don’t overdo it. Keep it short and sweet and then walk away and continue to enjoy.
If you do it right, you will surely make him think of you again. Don’t let him know you want to get back together, and don’t give in to the temptation to act negative or show him that you’re struggling to cope. Trying to manipulate him with negative emotions will not work and will only push him further away from you. You have to take it easy and rebuild what you had at the beginning.
Of course, all of this is going to take some time and patience. It won’t be easy and it won’t happen overnight. But if you want him back, you’ll have to hang in there. Make sure you don’t overwhelm it with your attention. If he can develop a positive attitude to the situation, then he too may find that he has some competition, as other men will be attracted to you when you are happy and enjoying life.
It’s never possible to know for sure if you can win a guy back, but if you focus on building a positive future for yourself, you will maximize your chances. When you show him that you don’t need him anymore, it takes the pressure off and he starts to remember your good points. And even if you don’t get the boy back, you’ll be in the best possible state to move on to a happy future with someone else.
