My wife doesn’t want to have sex! He would rather masturbate than make love to me
“I used to have good sex with my wife 3 times a week. Now, I consider myself lucky if we can do it once every fortnight. In fact, she prefers masturbation to having sex with me.” Are you facing a problem similar to the one described above? Well, you are not alone. Many married men are equally frustrated. You may have had good sex with your wife in the past, but the honeymoon period does not last. Life gets in the way and your wife may find sex more of a chore than something she enjoys.
Does your wife prefer her sex toys to you?
Do you know why your wife is no longer interested in sex? This is something you need to find out if you want to solve the problem. I notice that in some relationships, women prefer to masturbate using sex toys than to have sex with their husbands. This can be a very serious problem. The fact that a woman masturbates shows that she has sexual needs and desires. However, if you chose to satisfy your sexual needs with sex toys rather than with your husband, something is wrong. It is a well known fact that lack of sex can lead to the breakdown of marriage. Although lack of sex may not be the number one reason for divorce, it is important to fix the problem before it gets out of control.
Your wife is not having fun in bed
There are many valid reasons why a woman does not want to have sex with her husband. Being too tired is definitely a valid reason. Perhaps she is the one who does all the household chores and takes care of the children. If that’s the case, helping your wife with household chores and babysitting will help you score some points. Who knows? I may have a great night again. But what if you’ve done all of those things and your wife is still unwilling to do it with you?
Most of the time, it is because he does not enjoy his sexual experience with you. In this type of situation, most women will tend to give their husbands a politically correct answer. It doesn’t matter what the answer is. They do it because they don’t want to hurt their husband’s feelings.
But you already know the truth. The truth is that she does not enjoy her sexual experience with you.
3 methods to revive your sex life
1. Communicate with her
Sometimes all you need to do is communicate with your wife. You must let your wife know that you will not be offended even if she tells you the truth. Sure, you may not like what you hear and your ego may be hurt. But why let your ego rule you?
As a real man, you should do something more constructive. If you find that she doesn’t enjoy sex with you, you need to find out why and see if there are areas you can work on. Don’t let the ego get in your way.
2. Try something new
Maybe your wife is just bored. When you have a chance to have sex with your wife again, try something new. For example, if you are always the one on top, you can suggest a position change. Instead, ask your wife to climb on top of you. Who knows? Your wife might love it.
