Seductive love letters are a kind of intellectual foreplay: subtle and powerful all in one. Never see this as a step-by-step story, but rather as a picture you paint of your fantasies and feelings about being with your partner.
The most important part of writing sexy love letters is to evoke a certain feeling and enjoy it. The picture you paint with your cards can add new dimensions to an already active love life, or it can be a great way to facilitate a new relationship. This is also one of the best ways to keep the spark alive in a long distance relationship.
Start by setting the scene
Create a romantic atmosphere by describing where you are, what you are seeing, feeling, hearing and tasting. Is it a place that has a special meaning for you, what time of day is it? Is it hot or cold?
Close your eyes and imagine it. Now put it into words. Don’t worry too much about your choice of words now; you can come back later and make adjustments. It is more important to create a romantic atmosphere and the feelings that go with it.
Tell a story
Most people find this part of writing a seductive love letter very difficult. The easiest way to approach this is to tell a story. Create a story about something you have done or something you would like to do: or just something you fantasize about.
Focus on the things you know or would like to know. The idea is to create a feeling, so use words to describe how your feel and how it feels to be with your partner. Instead of saying “Your skin feels great,” she tries, “The silky smoothness of your skin under my fingers makes me feel…”
Use language you feel comfortable with. The pictures you are painting with your words come from its imagination. Even if you “borrow” ideas from others, be sure to make them your own. It will be terribly disappointing if your partner discovers that he is part of someone else’s fantasy and not yours.
Closure
A great way to end your seductive love letters is to recreate the feelings of cuddling and soft pillow talk afterward. This is especially important for women. Show her that you care about her and are capable of satisfying her wants and needs. These closing sentences can be gold if you do it right!
