The word sex when mentioned has a lot of influence on the mind and how people think. Some people hearing the word will get excited or it could have an adverse effect causing them fear and disgust. Commonly this is because most have never had sexual intercourse in their lives. Just the thought of sleeping with someone of the opposite sex can make a person shudder, while the sex maniac is likely to feel a tingle down his spine.

The number of men and women who have never had sex is surprisingly high. The reasons for this can be by choice, fear or others, whatever most obstacles are overcome with professional help. Talking to the right person will help you regain your confidence if you have been affected in the past due to a bad experience, or if there is something else that is preventing you from doing what you want to do (have sex), but you cannot, then book an appointment. to see a doctor or sexual orientation counselor.

Remember that you are the boss and therefore you never have to do something you are not comfortable with as this can cause problems. Making love (sex) is a beautiful thing with the right person, and even more beautiful if it’s started right.

Tips:

1. Sex is always going to be a pleasurable experience with someone you love. However, if it’s your first time and you’re having sex with someone you don’t know very well, get to know them, as it will make the experience much more fun. Ask about their likes and dislikes. The more you know about how to please this person, the more likely his actions will be viewed as successful rather than as failure. Sex with someone you don’t really know, have a condom on standby.

two. Before you have sex and there is fear inside, take it slow and make sure your partner understands your feelings. A good understanding between both people will make it easier to handle the situation. Bid your time, as fear can take a long time to get over. If the first attempt at sex doesn’t go as planned, talk about where it went wrong to help fix things for when you try again.

3. This is an intimate moment, so don’t rush like a bull into a china shop. Gently hold your partner and kiss them. Kisses must last. Let the lips roam up the neck and earlobe and everywhere after that. If at any point you feel apprehensive about continuing, stop and breathe in and out until you regain control.

Four. Stroking the body is important. Every touch or hit has to be meaningful. Feel your partner’s body while it is clothed, slowly removing one item of clothing at a time until you are naked. If full nudity embarrasses you, tell your partner. Over time, it will get easier, allowing you to accept that revealing flesh is actually a turn-on for most people. If you are the giver in a relationship and intend to use tongue ask if it is okay as it is not everyone’s cup of tea.

5. When undressing becomes a habit for you and you are happy that your partner can freely explore your body with his hands and tongue without worrying about spoiling the moment.

If this is your first sexual encounter with a man and you stand in front of him naked, chances are he already has an erection. A stiff and hard penis is a sign of arousal. This is good because now you know that what your man sees pleases him a lot and that is before the best part, where you can please him more by doing that beautiful thing called sex.