The definition of cunnilingus: the art of performing oral sex on a woman. Okay, with that out of the way, let’s not be too prudish in this current world. For the most part, relationships require a lot of work and constant attention. It is much like gardening or raising an orange tree. You water, feed, plum and trim. So just when you thought you could relax, there are weeds and fungus to deal with. Never take your tree for granted. That’s where my suggestions can help. Some involve tasting the fruit. It may involve licking, squeezing, and tasting the fruit. You need to balance your watering schedule so you don’t feel sloppy. So you should offer some special fertilizing treats from time to time, but I’m getting ahead of myself.

If you are reading this article to gain some insight into the art of pleasing your partner, then great. You must take care of them and plan so that they feel loved. So let’s examine some very basic steps in the process. In no particular order, here it goes.

1. Be attentive to his needs: Anticipate his wishes, even if it’s something simple like replacing the light bulb in the closet or the toilet paper roll.
2. Congratulate them: everyone needs peace of mind about their body and mind.
3. Do things together: Whether it’s just a shopping trip or visiting a friend or family member, ask them if they want to go.
4. Make your home comfortable: Do you have a nice chair, desk or other place to relax and enjoy being alone? Is the temperature in the house adequate?
5. Buy her something sexy: from pajamas to lingerie, take her to Victoria’s Secret and pick something out together.
6. Plan a romantic getaway – even if it’s for dinner or a night at a local hotel.
7. Remember all the special occasions: with flowers and/or a card. That includes the anniversary of the day you met, your birthday, holidays, etc.
8. Be nice to her friends and family: Even if you can’t stand her Aunt Mary or her friend Sally, ignore their faults and try a little harder. She will appreciate the effort.
9. Don’t be too picky: I’m sure she can be messy or always late. Don’t always point out her flaws and make her feel bad. she hurts easily
10. Have sex as often as she wants – and when you do, start with foreplay and then some cunnilingus, before the final act. She will love it, believe me.

If you don’t know how to orally pleasure her, go online and learn more or get a DVD. For the other nine ideas, they are more common sense than anything else. Remember, it’s all about her and you come second, sometimes literally. Love is more than sex; it’s about the little things that can set the mood and make a difference. Sometimes I’ll just write a short note for her to find in the morning or buy her something I think she’ll like. It may just be a bag of her favorite snacks, but it shows that he was thinking about her while at the store. She calls her from her office just to tell her that you love her. Or send him a text message or send him an email. But she shows that you are interested.

None of these suggestions are expensive or time consuming, so you have no excuses. Be loving and try the obvious. Come closer and caress her neck and tell her that you love her. She kisses her at the same time every day as I do. It was the exact moment we said “I do.” Cuddle up in bed at night and always kiss her goodnight. When the two of you leave for work in the morning, always kiss her and tell her you love her. It could be your last chance. Five years ago, I kissed my wife of 30 years goodbye as she left me for work. She died later that morning of a heart attack. Therefore, I have no regrets and advised you to do the same. Do the 10 things listed here (and think of 10 more) and you’ll have a happy life together. And if you only remember one thing, remember it’s all about HER!