Female ejaculation, is it real or maybe just a golden shower? I have asked many men, of all ages, if they have ever had a partner who ejaculated when she orgasmed. I have found that more men in their 20s are likely to say yes and that mature men in their 40s are less likely to have experienced female ejaculation with their partner. Most men will say that they have only seen female ejaculation when they have seen a porn movie.

There is a lot of controversy surrounding female ejaculation, however, female ejaculation is real and with practice, all women can experience an intense and emotional full-body orgasm from ejaculation.

Does a woman have the sexual anatomy to ejaculate?

At human conception and up to eight weeks of gestation, all human fetal development, male and female, begins life with female genital characteristics. At eight weeks of gestation, the male fetus, the Y chromosome is activated and begins to produce its own male hormones and male genital characteristics. Only then does the physical development of the male and female fetus change.

This means that the tissue that awakens at eight weeks of gestation in the male prostate is already present in the female fetus. Does it now make sense that the female anatomy also has a prostate gland? Female ejaculation is not urine. FE is actually close to the exact chemical makeup of prostatic fluid; except the sperm. The female prostate is also known as the female G-spot.

Each woman can ejaculate, small or large amounts and open to FAITH at her own pace. It is recommended that adult females teach themselves to ejaculate at first. Once a woman has successfully ejaculated on her own, she will be more successful ejaculating with a partner. Here are some reasons why a woman may have difficulty learning to ejaculate.

(a) A strong PC muscle. A woman cannot ejaculate if she has weak PC muscles. The PC muscle is a long muscle that supports the pelvic floor between the pubic bone and the tailbone. A loose vagina is not a sign that a woman has slept, it just means that her PC muscles are weak from lack of exercise. Successful female ejaculation will not be achieved until her PC muscles are tightened and strengthened. If her vagina feels loose during intercourse, that’s a sure sign that she needs to do PC muscle exercises.

(b) His attitude towards ejaculation. Letting go and allowing the body to ejaculate is very difficult for most women to master. A woman will have difficulty ejaculating if she is afraid of urinating on her partner or if she is not sure if her partner will enjoy the experience.

(c) Deep-seated sexual problems. Awakening the G-spot can bring all kinds of emotional problems for a woman. It is not uncommon for a woman to shut down abruptly once she begins to learn how to open up to female ejaculation. Negative messages from the past and sexual assaults can shut down a woman’s ability to express emotion, love, and intimacy, making it difficult for her to allow her body to open up, surrender, and trust sexually.

It can take some practice to learn how to tease and arouse the female prostate and vagina to awaken the female body to the experience of vaginal orgasms that are accompanied by female ejaculation. G-spot and vaginal orgasms are not as common as clitoral orgasms, so patience may be required to find and connect with the G-spot.

Slow foreplay is best for allowing the female body to relax into a slow, teasing buildup. Ladies, take a slow, deep breath and give your body permission to succumb to pleasure. A little clitoral stimulation is fine; however, the main focus should be on stimulating and awakening the female G-spot. Practice makes perfect, be kind to yourself if your G-spot takes time to awaken to pleasure and remember that every woman’s body awakens to female ejaculation and more pleasure at her own pace. Female G-spot stimulation and ejaculation can be an exciting new pleasurable experience for any woman who wants to experience a whole new level of pleasure for herself and her lover.