Here are 3 very important and useful “best sex tips for men” that will help you please any woman beyond belief.

1. Learn to last. Even if you think you can last a long time in bed, you may have a lot of room for improvement.

This is very important because it tends to be the number one complaint of all women who are not sexually satisfied enough. Many men just can’t last long in bed. And the sad thing is that they do nothing to change that. Not only does lasting long in bed lead to better sex for men, it builds a huge amount of confidence which actually translates to making women pick up much more easily (knowing you can please them beyond belief removes all the worries and anxiety problems).

Tip: The way to learn to have sex longer is through exercises and some breathing techniques. There’s a muscle you can exercise, commonly known as the “PC muscle,” that actually strengthens your ability to control. Anxiety and mental over-arousal can be greatly reduced by slow and controlled breathing techniques during sex.

Personal experiences: Developing foreplay is a great tactic to last longer. If you give a woman enough pleasure before actual sex, then orgasm will be just around the corner and you won’t have to stress about lasting sex. It works on the pleasurable “erotic zones” of the woman’s body. Use her hands and mouth to give pleasure first, before having actual sex.

2. Positions. Give this to the ladies, boys!

Guys can ejaculate pleasurably from almost any position, but women definitely prefer some positions over others and get much more pleasure from these positions. The standard missionary position is actually very LOW on the totem pole for pleasing women, yet this is what most men will rush into without even thinking about it. He find a position where he knows she experiences great pleasure and make it the main position for her, but definitely change it to other female-friendly pleasure positions for the sake of variety.

Tip: If you’re not sure of a pleasurable position to engage in, then look for the girl in the top position. This is always the favorite of many women. They have more control and can maneuver themselves to that “sweet spot” where the greatest pleasure will be experienced. An added benefit for guys in this position is that you’ll actually end up lasting a lot longer than other positions. This is due to simple gravity issues. Think about it!

Personal Experiences: Use a pillow for support. Many positions can be “85% pleasurable”, but there still seems to be a bit of discomfort that can keep the position from being all it can be. If you use a pillow to support your or your partner’s lower back or neck, it can lock into the particular position, making it 100% pleasurable. I find that a supportive pillow under the lower back when the woman is on top can greatly increase pleasure for both of us!

3. Thicker penis. Notice I didn’t say “bigger penis”!

This is because it is not the length that matters to women, but actually the most pleasurable performance aspect of the penis is the thickness, or the size of “circumference”. This actually provides more pleasure to women during sexual intercourse. It is the great secret of the always controversial question: “Does size matter?”. Length doesn’t matter, but girth definitely does! The good news is that men can improve their girth size by doing exercises, especially the jelqing exercise. The basics of this exercise consist of continuously massaging the penis for several sets and repetitions. Each massage is actually a slow, controlled movement that starts at the base and ends just before the head. This increases the walls of the penis, creating a much thicker size which will lead to better sex as this is what women find pleasurable.

Additional Tips for Jelqing: The penis must be in a state of partial erection. Generally this refers to an erection of about 60%, not a full erection. Lubrication is also highly recommended. There is “dry jelqing”, but this should be reserved for the more experienced, and even then many advise against using lubricant. When it comes to a jelqing program, you should set aside 4-5 days a week for jelqing exercises and wait about 8 weeks for results to start showing up.