His marriage is over, but all he can think about is how to get his wife back. You thought your marriage was great. Sure, he had his fair share of problems, but what marriage doesn’t have, right? When you wonder if your wife will be able to love you again, the answer is yes. Here are some tips to help you get your heart back.

You two loved each other enough to get married. The kind of love it takes to make a person want to marry runs deep. It doesn’t just go away. Even if she doesn’t want to admit it, she still loves you. It may not be as strong a love as it was before, but there is still love for you in his heart.

When you see your ex-wife, it’s perfectly okay to greet her and stop for a chat. Don’t try to talk too long or have a meaningful conversation with her right now. The shorter the conversation, the better. If there are still hurt feelings or anger, they will reappear when you are together too long. By keeping things short and sweet, she won’t have time to think about the bad things, and you will be in the front of her mind, rather than burying yourself deep in the back.

Why did the two separate? Many things make marriages end. It could have been your fault, hers, or both. Find out what went wrong. What was the last straw and what led to it? Are these problems avoidable?

Are you absolutely sure that the two of you were made for each other? If so, then you have to give it some time. You have both been through a traumatic experience and it will take some time for you to heal. However, that doesn’t mean you can’t see or talk to her. It just means that you should keep things simple right now. Keep the tension at bay.

When you can talk to her more often, it will be time to take another step. Ask him if he would like to join you for coffee or lunch. Stay in a public place where you both feel comfortable. Don’t mention anything bad. You are going to build a future relationship with her, keep the past in the past. Don’t try to watch it every day, there will be plenty of time for that in the future.

Things will happen naturally and you will both be relaxed with each other. Enjoy every minute you spend with her.