So your ex has a new boyfriend and you’re in pain. Your friends tell you it’s just a rebound, but that doesn’t make you feel any better. Do rebound relationships last?

It is not an easy question to answer. It usually depends on the nature of your breakup and how long you were together.

In most cases, the longer the relationship, the shorter the bounce.

But what exactly is a rebound?

Exes who immediately start new relationships after a breakup felt extremely stuck, dissatisfied, or bored with their previous relationships. I mean, you couldn’t keep it.

The good news is that she really didn’t want to end things with you. In most cases, she really tried to make it work.

But the bad news is you weren’t listening.

So after weeks, months, or even years of trying, he finally broke out of the jail cell you called a relationship and found something new. As painful as it is, you deserve it. But what is even more painful is the fact that you will repeat the same mistake once again.

Here are some common warning signs that most men don’t recognize:

– It was getting harder and harder to reach her by phone.
– She wanted to go out with her friends more.
– She asks if you put any cute girls lately.
– He was getting more and more irritable.

Usually, when faced with these situations, men do the absolutely wrong thing in trying to “fix” things.

What you should have done is back off or even initiate the breakup because she’s already reached the point of looking for a way out and you need to power yourself back.

So how long will her rebound last with this new guy?

A good rule of thumb is that she will stay longer with a guy who is the complete opposite of you or a “bad boy” type, usually 3-6 months, but this guy will most likely dump her and break her heart. .

If he’s dating someone more like you, these bounces usually don’t last more than 3 months.

Remember, these are rules of thumb that I have observed for years giving relationship advice. There are always exceptions to every rule. If you want your ex back fast, you better think of a plan before he gets back together with the next guy (which happens most of the time).

These are just the first steps in getting your girl back.