There are 5 things you need to be able to consistently give any woman incredible sexual pleasure.
1. You must be comfortable with sexuality.
This means both your sexuality and her sexuality. And the keyword here is comfortable! As in, it’s a normal healthy activity for adults.
If you are not comfortable with sexuality, you will come off as creepy or needy. Women will notice this within minutes of meeting you.
2. You must understand and appreciate women
If you want to ‘get’ sex with women, or have anger towards women… forget about sleeping with them.
At best you’ll end up with a woman who doesn’t respect herself, because any woman with a healthy self-esteem will stay away from any man who doesn’t respect her.
However, if you truly love women…for all that defines them as a woman…you will never have a problem being surrounded by wonderful women.
3. You must learn female anatomy
You need this to know how to touch her in ways and in places most men don’t even know exist.
Ask a guy in a bar and he’ll tell you “Yeah right, I know everything about the female anatomy”but put most guys in private and you find out the truth.
Listen, it’s nothing to be ashamed of… useful sexual anatomy is simply not taught in most of the world. At least if my informal survey of men who come to me to learn how to pleasure women is accurate.
The good news is that it is not really difficult. A couple of hours of study and you will know more than most men learn in a lifetime. And the women you date will be VERY grateful.
4. You must be able to give her orgasms
Different types of orgasms and in different ways. Clitoral, vaginal, extended, multiple orgasms and more.
If you don’t, and just pump and pull… you’ll become another pathetic lover in a parade of lousy lovers. Because that’s what everyone does.
Most guys only care about their own needs. As I mentioned in my “The Secret to Really Good Sex” article, if all you do is focus on pleasuring women and not ‘getting laid’, you’ll already be way ahead of most men on the planet.
So if you learn about the female anatomy and those wonderfully sensitive and erotic parts of her body…and touch her just the right way…she’ll think she’s won the manly lottery!
5. You must learn to engage your mind and your fantasies.
For a woman, sex is mainly mental. Stage hypnotists have known this for over 100 years. Any competent stage hypnotist can give a woman an orgasm simply by talking to her.
This is possible thanks to the mind-body connection and the ability of women to create vivid fantasies in their minds. This is also the reason why women read 400 page romance novels while men watch pornography.
And recent research has shown that women can orgasm from visual imagery alone without touching their body. (see the book the science of orgasm by Komisaruk, Beyers-Flores & Whipple)
The point is that women can experience orgasms and sexual pleasure from many forms of stimuli. It doesn’t have to be through genital stimulation. And the most potent and powerful sexual organ of a woman is her mind.
Almost 70% of women report that they do not orgasm during intercourse.Imagine how excited she will be when you can give her a instant orgasm on demand!
Summary:If you take the time to work on making these 5 things a part of who you are, you will be in the 1% or 2% of truly masterful lovers in this world. Women will love and respect you, and your relationships will be fun, sexy, and exciting.
