Were the old days something about lasting love? Was love more valuable when our grandparents met? How can we find the same lasting love that veteran couples have? What are we doing today that destroys families and hearts? The reason marriage is down, divorce is up, and fewer stick together after thirty-five years is because we made a wrong decision as a society that now damages the future of love.

We no longer let love happen naturally, now we seek the sex, the lust, a lascivious good time that eclipses a lifetime of happiness. We are looking for a quick high and never worry about ourselves in the long run. The media has made it worse and influenced a fragile generation that is rising. Today we have sex, maybe love, then quick love. We no longer let love happen naturally like we should.

Today we catch up after all the days of casual sex and dead ends. Then we rush and push because biology moves forward. We no longer become best friends for life or admire each other for our souls. Best friends are companions for life just like love is. Then the romance becomes appropriate for two people who respect each other with great love and adoration.

When we follow our heart instead of opinion, we are no longer whores or conformists. May sex be saved to have meaning and heart and keep the number of sexual partners low. Be the best friends in love to admire each other more than anyone on the planet. Let love happen naturally like the world once did.