Before seeing a real woman’s body for the first time, many men may have a very unrealistic idea of ​​what the female genitalia looks like. Consider most of the early sexual exposures of men and they inevitably come from the scientific texts our well-meaning parents showed us that contained puzzling drawings of private parts, or from the idealized airbrushed photos of adult magazines.

The problem with this type of education is that many of us believe that these are accurate images that represent every type of female body that we will encounter. We almost hope that her body has the perfect smooth flesh that we see in these pictures. Then all of a sudden the day comes when you first see a naked woman and all of a sudden everything looks so different that you hardly know where to start. Sounds familiar? Anyway, to celebrate this diversity, we will look at the different types of vagina, labia, and even clitoris and what they mean to you and her.

What does this mean for guys?

There are many reasons why guys should care. The main one is that the difference in morphology between different women can generate enormous advantages or disadvantages when it comes to giving you an orgasm. Therefore, knowing as much as possible about the different types of vagina can help you easily determine which type your woman has. The second reason is that women can often feel very insecure about their vagina. I never realized how common it was until I asked some women. It can get so extreme that women may even forbid their lovers to give them oral sex or fingering because they are secretly ashamed that their genitals are not as pretty as others.

Physical differences

The biggest morphological difference that makes a difference for their partners is the exposure of the clitoris. Some women have a clitoris (also called the clitoral gland. That is, the part you stimulate) that protrudes well above the clitoral hood (the triangle of flesh just above the glans of the clitoris). A more exposed clitoris is easier to stimulate and therefore makes the boy’s foreplay significantly easier. The only problem is that it can be too sensitive, so it is better to use more lubricant than you normally would. In contrast, the clitoris can sometimes be hidden by the clitoral hood. When this happens, you may find it easier to spread your legs wider during foreplay or press your hips against her. In extreme cases, a sex toy will help, as they can vibrate even through the hood of the clitoris. If you find that nothing helps, you may want to suggest a clitoral pump. This device creates pressure that enlarges the clitoris.

Many women tend to have longer inner lips than outer lips. This creates the flower-shaped appearance that spawned centuries of horrible poetry! This should not have any major effect on oral sex, but it can cause problems during fingering as it is easy to accidentally push the labia minora (the “inner” lips) into the vagina and this will probably cause you some discomfort.

The effects of psychological differences

Once I asked a few women about this, I was surprised to learn how many did not like the shape of their vulva. After that, I quickly realized that a lot of what I thought was modesty on the woman’s part was actually her nervousness about the way her genitals looked. Since then I have made sure to tell you how beautiful every part of your body is.

Many women have a different coloration than their genitals. In fact, the pink colored vulva is comparatively rare compared to other types. Even Caucasian women experience a wide color gamut with darker areas, particularly around the perineum and sometimes on the lips as well. Different races obviously have differences too.

Therefore, it is your job to make sure that you are comfortable with your body. When she’s convinced that you find all her an arouser, so you’re most of the way to have mind-blowing orgasms together.